The Ray Of Hope Aashi...

Is it a crime or a boon ? Hey bloggers, I am back and this time with few questions . Lets see if you can find an answer to them :) -Aashi Why does she need you ? Why does she need anyone for her sustainance ?Why is it mandatory for her to change her surname , her life for you ? Why does she do all those sacrifices ? Why does she need your salary to live ? Why does she bear that fear of rejection ? Why does she has to look beautiful to impress you and to get a nod for your marriage ? Why does she get judged ? Why does she go against her wishes to keep you happy ? Why can't she be Single by choice ? Why is being a Divorcee , a curse ? Why is she a bad omen , if she can't bear a child ? Why is she not a mother if she adopts a child ? Why can't she have a baby girl ? Why can't she have a boyfriend ? Why can you have a girlfriend and still be a cooldude when she is treated like a slut. ? Why for the sake of Lord can she not be single or committed by her choice witho...

Relationships are not easy. They bloom , nurture , develop and fill your life with happiness.... It is never perfect , cracks do develop but one needs to repair them before its too late. We take things for granted , people for granted , family for granted but only when you stay away from them , you realise their value. They realise your value. Never take your loved ones for granted.  Life is too short. Live it with happiness and don't waste it by carrying grudges against anyone. Give your realtionship with anyone , be it be family or friends,some time.. things go sour , then don't give up.. be firm and more determined to mend it and only give up when you succeed. Uljhe rishton ko suljhao , unhe todo mat :) #RandomThought #BlogUpdate #ThisSong #LoveThisFeelingOfBeingResponsible :)#RishtonKaManjha.

I am sorry bloggers. I know I am not posting what you people wanted me too. Right now at 3:25 am , I felt like writing and I wrote this, I know this can be crap too and may have loads of errors , but then you can bear with that I guess ;) Anvita's pov. Sometimes its not about how you feel..its not about how you want things to be , its not about your choice , your wish and your dreams. It’s all about the wishes, dreams and feelings of your people , your family . Thinking about them doesn’t make you SELFLESS  , it just doesn’t allow you being selfish. When you’re grown with that one ideology , when you know that your family is your life and your selfish decisions might hurt them , Is it not better to choose them over you ? It is very easy for anyone to accuse a girl of saying ‘no’ to them but then nobody, NOBODY realises the hurt , the guilt ,a girl goes through. Being in a relationship gives happiness to others. Maybe it does but then when you know that life is...

When I look back , I see myself as a carefree kid , who had no association with worries, was free of tensions and all problems. All I cared was playing but now things have changed. Life has changed, I am a grown up now , I have responsibilities , expectations and lots of work to do. I can’t just wander around. I have to study , secure good grades and live upto everyone’s expectations. With the change in life, my perspective towards life has also changed.  Earlier I saw what I was shown but now , I analyse , understand and believe in what I know is right. I have my set of rules to follow . My equation with everyone has changed. It’s not that I didn't love my friends earlier but it’s just that now I know that who are the right people to be loved , to be attached with. When I was a kid , friends for me were those who played with me , gradually , I realised that friends are those who support you and listen to your stuff but now I have realised that friends are...

I want you to be with me, Assure me that you are there for me . I want you to care for me, Assure me that I am being loved . I want you to hold my hand, Assure me that you will never let me fall. I want you to surprise me , Assure me that I am special. I want you to walk beside me, Assure me that life is beautiful with you. I want you to close my eyes, Assure me that I can see through your eyes. I want you to kneel down and confess your love , Assure me that you are proud of admitting it. I just want you, because that assures me that I have everything when you are with me.