The Ray Of Hope Aashi...

So, all you need sometimes is some 'me time' and a hot cup of coffee. Never really believed in the idea of talking about things that bother you, with someone over a cup of coffee, until this happened. I mean there are people who can talk about issues in life easily, but there are those extreme opposites too. I know people who speak alot, alot and still can't talk about themselves. So, for  people like them, this cup of coffee might bring in the change, for good. There's nothing that a little bit of shopping can't fix, well that's what I believed in...and now, I can say, there's nothing that sharing or talking about can't fix. It is not necessary to confront people always but sometimes, it is important to confront yourself. Find a person to talk too, that someone is not necessarily your best friend, your peer or your family. This person could be anyone you are comfortable with. Sometimes an unplanned outing is so much better and refreshing , than a pla...

We people are so stupid. We love, we understand, we forgive and we be with people who really give a damn for us. We make a person important, we prioritize them in a way we shouldn't. We make them the centre of our lives. Their happiness, their well being, their wants, their needs, their wishes, their fantasies, their life, their moods, their words, their actions, their emotions, them..we totally make them a part of us, an indispensable part of us. We tend to forget our individuality, our opinions, our outlooks. We get judged on the basis of how they perceive us. They forget you but you being you, you can never leave them. You just always want to stick to them, like a bee is stuck to honey, always.. it doesn't care if the honey is bitter or not suitable for them. Their life becomes theirs. We as individuals forget individuality. It might be possible that have issues too, but they choose to stay mum. At this stage, silence plays the villian. We tend to speak in a manner that do...