Coffee-Talk.

So, all you need sometimes is some 'me time' and a hot cup of coffee.
Never really believed in the idea of talking about things that bother you, with someone over a cup of coffee, until this happened. I mean there are people who can talk about issues in life easily, but there are those extreme opposites too. I know people who speak alot, alot and still can't talk about themselves. So, for  people like them, this cup of coffee might bring in the change, for good.

There's nothing that a little bit of shopping can't fix, well that's what I believed in...and now, I can say, there's nothing that sharing or talking about can't fix. It is not necessary to confront people always but sometimes, it is important to confront yourself. Find a person to talk too, that someone is not necessarily your best friend, your peer or your family. This person could be anyone you are comfortable with.
Sometimes an unplanned outing is so much better and refreshing , than a planned one. You go to someone to talk about something and somehow you end up opening yourself, revealing your deep dark secrets and sharing you life with them.
You don't have to be necessarily very low in life in order to share things, you can share happy things with a person you are most comfortable with or maybe with a person you never thought you will ever share  anything with, and trust me, it helps.
Sharing and opening up to people who are not the same age as yours also is a therapy. I mean, learning from their experiences, their learnings and their advices, it is all so good.
I remember talking to this one person, who changed my life completely, in just 40 mins. She made me get out of the guilt and burden of a failed bond with, the then, very important people of my life. This person would probably be twice my age and the gap between the two of us was not just of the age, but also of the designation, experience and also her maturity level. With just few words of mine, she could realise that I needed to talk about something to someone and let go of the things that I have been collecting in my heart. She  somehow realised that I needed a break and that talking about it would help me. She not only gave me her time because she realised that I needed time, at that moment but also, she made me shed all my inhibitions. She took me for a coffee date, not as fancy as it sounds but this one gesture of hers, brought in a change in me, that I can never explain.
We didn't talk about how low I was or why I was low...we talked about us. I talked about myself so much that I got to know few things that I never openly accepted. She shared her experiences and made me realize how important it was for me to love myself and not carry the guilt or burden of an incomplete bond. She made me realise that everyone, everyone is special. Her way of handling me took me back to the times when I used to talk to people. It took me back to the time where I was as happy as I could ever be. It took me back to my carefree childhood.
I could feel the love and the trust that I had lost in me. I wanted to stand up after falling down, everytime. I didn't wish to cry and talk about things. I wished to accept reality and move on...she brought in this change, and , all I can say is, it was all normal after that cup of coffee...
This gave me a break from others and I stood up so strong that now I don't fear falling down again. After this much needed short break, all I can say is, Stop blaming yourself for things you can't control. Those who have to leave will leave and those who deserve to stay will stay...
Give yourself that break you really need before you get worked up.
Let it out and it helps.
Talk it out. Sort things. Have someone to share your happiness and sorrows with.