The Ray Of Hope Aashi...

We as individuals always talk about experiences that haunt us for a lifetime, things that scar us,people that leave us and how life is a curse…ever wondered how blessed life is? Ever counted on the number of blessings you have? Ever realized the real meaning of a blessing? A blessing is when you see forever in someone's eyes. A blessing is when you know that the people you are with are going to stay. It is when you look at people and they understand what you need. It is a person or set of people who accept you the way you are and don’t wish for you to change. It is a relationship which requires nothing but unspoken care, love and affection. A blessing is when you actually feel happy and secure. A blessing is having a sister who loves you more than she loves herself… Happiness is being with people who make you feel home. It is loving yourself and letting go of everything you have held on for so long. It is making people happy. It is keeping yourself happy. Happiness is ta...

"So, what if you fall in love with her". His friend asked. " Umm, I might fall for her, but I shall never tell her that. I don't think I will, but someday if I do, I shall never force her to love me." Saksham said. "But, what's wrong?  Why do you always have to have to think about the future?  You love her, date her for as long as possible and let her go when she wants to. Simple, isn't it?" Adi said. " If at all I love her, I shall love her with all my heart, my soul and my for my life. She isn't an alternative for me, she is my best friend, my source of happiness and my sunshine. My day starts with her 'Good morning stupid'and ends with 'Sleep, idiot.' For me to say that I love her, it shall mean that I love her forever. I don't plan to leave her, not today, not tomorrow, not forever. If I will love her, she will be my forever. I don't wish to sound cheesy, I am being very real. I am ready to stay with her...

Nothing can explain what you go through when you miss that mark. No matter how much you earn in a journey, in terms of relationships, people, trust, love and affection, sometimes, you need an extra push that helps you reach your destination...and no matter how good you were throughout, if you miss that finish point, things seem irrelevant. There are so many instances where little things affect us. There are a hundred things that affects us, as an individual, but very few that leave an everlasting effect on us. Happiness is a state of being and you can only be  happy,truly, when you are in your normal state. Things that seem very trivial to others might break you down as a person. Your dream is yours, the desire to fulfill this dream can never be explained in words and someday, if that dream breaks, it shatters you. You don't have to necessarily explain everyone why that 'trivial issue' affects you. The day that dream breaks, all your efforts to fulfill that dream holds ...

Not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay forever. Not every person who was once very very special to you is meant to remain special forever. Not every person is your life will let go of all the issues to end something on a very positive note...But there will be people who will stay as special as they were, if not more, for a lifetime.   This is about dynamism, this is about changes and this is about people. We meet people, we love them and slowly we start evolving. Everyday we learn something new about them and everyday, we begin to dislike the old habits. It is human nature that once you start loving someone and the other person loves you back, you start taking them for granted. Well, in this case, it was not about being taken for granted, it was about not being able to reciprocate the same love and warmth as the other person. This wasn’t because priorities changed, it was because we start assuming that the other person will understand....

So, this is my message to all the chain smokers out there. Please do share this post, not for me, but for all those Anokhi's out there. This is not a personal story, just a way of representing my thoughts. Anokhi's point of view Dear Father, I know you love me and our family and I am the centre of your world. I know you can do anything for me, but, what I fail to understand is why you can't leave this habit of yours? I fail to understand that if I am so important to you, why are you risking my and our family's future? Why for you, that role of toxic is more important than us? Why do you always lie to us that you shall leave it? Why did you swear on me, the other day? Why do you choose it over us? Why don't you think about us, the effect it has on us? Why don't you understand that it is not you who smokes, it is us, our family that becomes a passive smoker? Why do you fail to understand that it is not you that is killing yourself day by day, it is us, wh...

So, all you need sometimes is some 'me time' and a hot cup of coffee. Never really believed in the idea of talking about things that bother you, with someone over a cup of coffee, until this happened. I mean there are people who can talk about issues in life easily, but there are those extreme opposites too. I know people who speak alot, alot and still can't talk about themselves. So, for  people like them, this cup of coffee might bring in the change, for good. There's nothing that a little bit of shopping can't fix, well that's what I believed in...and now, I can say, there's nothing that sharing or talking about can't fix. It is not necessary to confront people always but sometimes, it is important to confront yourself. Find a person to talk too, that someone is not necessarily your best friend, your peer or your family. This person could be anyone you are comfortable with. Sometimes an unplanned outing is so much better and refreshing , than a pla...

We people are so stupid. We love, we understand, we forgive and we be with people who really give a damn for us. We make a person important, we prioritize them in a way we shouldn't. We make them the centre of our lives. Their happiness, their well being, their wants, their needs, their wishes, their fantasies, their life, their moods, their words, their actions, their emotions, them..we totally make them a part of us, an indispensable part of us. We tend to forget our individuality, our opinions, our outlooks. We get judged on the basis of how they perceive us. They forget you but you being you, you can never leave them. You just always want to stick to them, like a bee is stuck to honey, always.. it doesn't care if the honey is bitter or not suitable for them. Their life becomes theirs. We as individuals forget individuality. It might be possible that have issues too, but they choose to stay mum. At this stage, silence plays the villian. We tend to speak in a manner that do...

Sometimes you live your life in a manner that you don't wish to live. Sometimes you become a person that you actually really, are not. Sometimes you do things which you don't really wish too. Sometimes you stay happy even when it is tearing apart inside.  Sometimes it is like you are merely breathing and not living. Sometimes you can't stop crying even after a beautiful day. Sometimes you can't stop being upset even after a beautiful end. Sometimes, someone's one word makes you feel useless, worthless and all sorts of 'less'. Your love, your affection, your sacrifices, your life, all becomes a joke infront of that one moment. Sometimes it is not even a mistake and yet you have to be sorry. Sometimes it is about accepting the not acceptable. Sometimes it is about just walking off without uttering a word. Sometimes you break down even when you are not supposed too. Sometimes you are hurt and you are not supposed to show that. Sometimes you have a ton of comp...